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Difficulties of Same-Sex Breakups

While same-sex marriage remains a divisive issue around the world, gays and lesbians continue to partner up and experience love just like straight people. When long-term same-sex couples who have not had the benefit of being legally married break up, it creates a host of problems that would not exist if they had been able to marry.

Because unwed couples do not share their assets, long-term same-sex relationships that end can be complicated to sort through. Legally, each member is only entitled to their personal assets and what they each brought into the relationship. In legally married couples, the process of asset division is one of the primary contentions if and when they divorce. This is not possible for unmarried gay couples, leaving them unable to equitably divide the assets they’ve accrued through the course of their relationship equally in court.

Gay couples often have children through surrogates or adoption. If the relationship ends, getting custody of the child or any parenting rights can be incredibly complicated for the non-biological parent, even if he or she was responsible for most of the parenting. This would rarely be the case through a traditional divorce.

New Jersey allows for civil unions and recognizes the same-sex unions of other states, dampening the complexity of these sorts of breakups. However, in the states that do not allow same-sex unions, the end of a long-term relationships can be incredibly messy and there is no protection for the individual who was not the breadwinner as there would be in a divorce.

 

Choosing Divorce Lawyers

Child custody is one of the many areas that can complicate a divorce proceeding. Because it is also a part of the divorce decree granted by the court, it can take longer to determine who gets the custody of the child (or children). When these issues come up, it would be best to get help and advice from divorce lawyers who can guide you on how to proceed with the problem.

Divorce does not only affect both spouses. In cases where there is a child involved, the child could be in the middle of a tug-of-war between the mother and father. Making sure that the divorce does not greatly affect the child, especially younger ones who may have trouble understanding the circumstances, can be important when pursuing a divorce claim.

One way to help ease the pain of a family breaking up and could assist in the smooth divorce proceeding is when both parents attend mediation sessions mandated by the divorce court; this allows them to express their concerns for child custody and possible child support. When both spouses do not come to an agreement following the mandatory mediation sessions, the court can then decide (through the advice and counsel of the mediator) as to who will get legal custody of the child or children, as well as on matters of child support and visitations.

Certain states have different laws regarding child custody, thus it is important to consult with divorce lawyers about such things to make sure that whatever the decision is beneficial for everyone, especially to the welfare of the child. How children handle divorce is different from how adults handle them, which is why it is always important for parents to help the child cope well with the situation, by providing proper support in the home and ensuring the child is well attended.

Mesothelioma and its Various Types

Mesothelioma is a chronic and deadly cancer that is oftentimes diagnosed only after it has developed to a point that can no longer be treated. It is acquired through exposure to asbestos, a type of mineral that is highly elastic and resistant to electricity, chemicals, heat, and fire. Remarkably useful, asbestos was quickly accepted globally. This miracle mineral proved to be a great component in the manufacture of cement, generators, turbines, boilers, steam pipes, brakes and clutches, insulators, gaskets, hot water piping and many others.

Anyone who has been exposed to asbestos can develop mesothelioma. There are certain men and women, though, whose chances of developing it are far more greater than other since their jobs make direct contact with asbestos a daily occurrence. They are the asbestos miners, processing plant workers, plumbers, machinists, auto workers, electricians, firefighters, shipyard workers and construction workers. Even the US Navy, which saw how extremely useful this mineral is, exposed many of its men and workers to this deadly mineral too.

There are four known types of this malignant cancer which develops in the cells of the mesothelium, a covering that protects the body’s internal organs. These types are:

  • Pleural mesothelioma – this is the most common type of mesothelioma; it develops along the lining of the lungs, known as the pleura. Difficulty in swallowing, shortness of breath, constant dry cough, persistent chest pain, night sweats, fever and fatigue are some of the symptoms of this type of cancer
  • Peritoneal mesothelioma – is cancer that grows along the abdomen’s mesothelial lining. This spreads in the body faster than the other types of mesothelioma via small cells that are carried through the blood. Symptoms of this deadly cancer include abdominal pain, abdominal swelling, weight loss, nausea / vomiting, constipation or diarrhea and fatigue.
  • Pericardial mesothelioma – pericardium or the outer heart covering is where this cancer develops. This may be the rarest type of mesothelioma, but the needed surgery to remove it is the riskiest due to its nearness to the heart. Its symptoms are irregular heartbeat, chest pain, breathing difficulty, coughing, night sweats or fever and fatigue.
  • Testicular mesothelioma –this is a very rare type of mesothelioma which develops along the lining of the male’s reproductive glands, the testis. Swelling of the scrotum and testicular lumps are the major signs of this deadly cancer.